The whole trouble comes from the fact that you cannot harmonise with someone unless he in in agreement with your own ides and his opinion and way of doing things are in conformity with yours.

You must widen your consciousness and understand that everyone has his own law. It is necessary to find the ground of understanding and harmony in a happy combination of individual wills and not to try that all may be the same in an identical will and action.

- The Mother

Let us give joy to all for joy is ours. - Sri Aurobindo